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DDeviousDelights
Party Rules
Most important rule –
NO
MEANS NO. DDeviousDelights has members
who are exploring their sexuality and/or their kinky sides at any number of levels. Don’t try and impose
YOUR desires on them. Asking is fine. Begging works too. But,
NO
MEANS NO. Please respect this and
everyone will have a fun time.
While you may not find everyone else at the party personally appealing to
you, nor do we expect you to, common courtesy goes a long way in allowing
everyone to have a good time. There are always enough people in attendance so that,
we believe, each of you can find something or someone to pique your interest.
Frequently Asked Questions
What
is the dress code?
No
sneakers, jeans, t-shirts, baseball caps, shorts, etc. Dress comfortably and
sexy. There
is place to change there for those that wish to wear something more exotic than
even NYC streets will allow. Fetish
wear is perfectly acceptable...fantasies encouraged.
What
is the age range?
Roughly,
the age range is 20s - 50s, with
a
predominance in the
25-45 age group. Age is unimportant in our group: open-mindedness, a desire to
have fun and
honesty play far more important roles.
What
time should we arrive by?
Unless otherwise noted,
doors
open at 10:00PM for most parties. You may arrive anytime you desire
after that.
Doors close at 1:30AM for admissions at both locations.
What
are your hours of operation?
From
10:00PM
-
4:00AM unless otherwise noted for a
particular party.
Is there any charge for this party ?
Yes. There is a charge to cover our expenses.
Specific contributions vary by party and are listed on the registration sheet
for that event. There is always a significant discount for early registration
and pre-payment. Refunds are gladly given if you cannot attend and cancel at
least 48 hours prior to the party. Future party credits are given for
cancellations received after that point and prior to the party. Advance payments are via
PayPal. Some special events have different pricing, as our costs vary, and they
will be noted that way on their registration pages.
How
do we get to come to one of your parties?
Register
and pay online or register online and pay at the door. Cash only is
accepted at the door.
Do
you accept credit cards?
We
accept Visa, Mastercard, Discover and American Express credit cards online
through
PayPal. We also accept cash
at the door
Do
I need to bring anything to the party to be admitted?
No. You need only bring yourselves and a healthy attitude about having
fun. You need to be able to prove how old you are if we have any doubts.
Yes it is!.
While many of our friends enjoy varying levels of sensual BDSM play, many have
little or no interest. And that is just fine with us. Depending upon where we
are hosting, there may be space devoted to this type of play although there is far more
space allocated to those just seeking the sexual exploration that
DDeviousDelights offers its friends. No one is ever pressured or made to feel
like they need to participate in anything that doesn't interest them.
Watching others is perfectly OK too. Hey, You never know ;-).
Yes you may. This is a BYO Party.
If you desire to consume any alcohol during the party, please bring it along
with you.
Once you arrive, our staff will be happy to label your bottle and serve you
anytime you require a drink. We just ask that you drink responsibly.
Besides
the ability to BYOB do you serve non-alcoholic beverages should we not wish to
bring alcohol?
We do indeed supply juices, mixers and other non-alcoholic beverages FREE.
If
we are bringing drinks that need to stay cool, do we have to bring it in a
cooler and should it be labeled?
You
don't need a cooler and we will take care of the labeling of the bottles so they
don't get confused with other peoples drinks.
Where
are you located?
We
currently host in both Manhattan and Brooklyn on different weekends. We
give out the exact address to
those that have confirmed reservations.
Do I have to DO anything if I come ?
NO. You don't. While we expect that most people are coming with the intent of
finding compatible playmates and enjoying their time there. If you are new and
unsure and want to come and see what a party of this sort can be like, we
welcome you to come and observe and jump in if and when you are ready to do so.
I
would like to attend your party. How quickly can the online registration form be
processed so I'll know if we can attend? We are coming in from out of
town and would like to know before we get there. How far in advance should we
register?
You
should register as early as you can
We
may be in the city after a party that day. Can you give us the address and can
we register in person?
You
MUST register for the party. We do not
allow walk-ins. When you register, you will receive a confirmation email with
directions the week of the party.
Is
it okay to cancel our reservation?
Yes,
but please give us as much notice as possible so that we may include another
lucky couple in your place.
What
is the process for bringing a female guest to the party?
The
female should make a reservation as a single online just as you need to do. That
way, you will all be recognized in our computer system and we will be able to
invite her to future parties.
What
is your definition of a "couple?"
The term "couple" does NOT have to mean married. A relationship that exists, at
whatever level, is all that matters in our fairly loose definition. We strongly
suggest that couples discuss what is and is not acceptable for you and your
relationship BEFORE you come to the party. Many couples agree to not do
anything on their first visit, just come and see what it is all about. Come and try us out and see what the reactions are.
Do
you have lockers or a coat check where we can leave our coats? Do we need towels
or sheets for your playrooms?
Both our host locations provide lockers,
fresh linens and towels and we provide condoms.
Are
there any age limitations at your parties?
You
must be at least 21 years of age, and prove it to be able to enter the party.
That is the lower limit. The upper age limit? As long as you are still able to
make it through our doors
you can come and enjoy!
I
am over 21, but my partner is underage. Can he or she still attend a party?
No.
All attendees must be of legal age to enter because liquor, while not supplied by
us, is, nevertheless, available on a BYOB basis and we could not be able to
control whether or not they are drinking. Wait until your partner is 21 and then
come and join us.
How
do you handle the risk factors regarding STDs? Do you screen party attendees?
We
provide condoms free of charge to everyone who cares to use them.
Our house
policy is also one of safe sex. We provide clean sheets, towels and more. To
screen attendees would be an invasion of privacy.
Coming to our parties does not necessarily mean you are going to have sex
with another person. You may wish to merely dance, or watch or play in other
ways - and more. You should ask about an individual's sexual history and trust
your own feelings if you do decide to engage in any kind of sexual activity.
However, in the end, you are the one responsible for your
activities and any consequences that may arise from such activities.
Can
we bring toys to the parties?
Sure.
The more, the merrier.
Who
do we talk to if we have questions?
If
you have any more specific questions, please feel free to email info@DDeviousDelights.com.